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Inspiring Woman takes Bold Leadership to Make a Difference

 Inspiring Woman takes Bold Leadership to Make a Difference What woman do you know who is assuming bold leadership to change the world? I met an inspirational powerhouse of a woman last year who continues to inspire me today. Paula Fellingham's mission is to enlighten women's minds and empower women's hearts for a better world. She is dedicated to empowering women and families around the world through the 'Women's Information Network' and the 'Global...
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Connect to your clients and staff by expressing your 'voice of leadership'

What does your voice communicate about you? Would you like to connect more effectively with more confidence and clarity when you speak to your clients,prospective clients, and your staff? Your voice is closely linked to your state of well-being and confidence. How you project your voice and your energy impacts how you feel as well as how you help your clients to feel. Have you ever...
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Tips on Telling Stories to Connect with your Audience

When I saw Kevin Roberts, Worldwide CEO of Saatchi and Saatchi speak last year, he said something that stuck: What our customers want more than anything else is a sense of intimacy, a personal connection with you and your product or service. So how do you create intimacy and connection in your...
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Sally named 'Inspirational Speaker of the Year' & appointed President of NSANZ

(article to appear in Meeting NewZ magazine for conference organisers) The National Speakers’ Association of New Zealand (NSANZ) has awarded Sally Mabelle the ‘Inspirational Speaker of the Year’ 2011 award. This is the first time the award has been made nationally and the...
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Empathy: a key to transform relationships and culture

Imagine a culture where all people feels aligned and connected with a clear sense of purpose, and there is consequently a great sense of goodwill, cooperation, productivity, and innovation as a result. It's well known that your emotions as a leader are contagious, and that you set the tone for...
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What is your Net Worth: Exploring REAL Wealth

What’s your net worth? When you hear this question, do you automatically think of your financial income and assets? Or, do you think of your contribution to society or your inherent ‘worth and dignity’? In an interview just two weeks ago, the prime minister of Bhutan,...
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What Tragedy Happens Every 40 Seconds and How Can You Make a Difference?

WARNING: some of the content below may be upsetting I’ve just returned to New Zealand after 9 days in the States where I was called in after a very sad and shocking event. My 15 year-old nephew, Will, had committed suicide. His mother, my sister, found him hanging from his belt in his...
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'Leadership Presence': A Key to your Personal and Professional Success

I recently returned from a week in Rarotonga where I had the chance to slow down and enjoy being. I layed in the hammock under the palm tree, gazing out on the warm blue ocean, and enjoyed feeling the breeze gently caress my skin. I also took the opportunity to practice mindfulness or 'the art...
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The Art of Conversation for Leaders: Building Rapport and Deepening Relationships

In the business world, the word 'LOVE' is rarely used, yet that's exactly what most people really want - we ALL want to be loved - so how do you become a leader in expressing LOVE in a business context? It boils down to one word...INTEREST. In sales as well as customer service, sincere...
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The Power of Play: A Key Leadership Competency

When you hear the word 'play' used in the context of 'leadership', what comes to mind? Do you have a positive, negative, or mixed response? Do you think 'irresponsible, childish, unfocused,?' OR do you think 'enthusiastic, spontaneous, and creative'? I used to think that being a leader...
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The 'Bigger Picture' of Being a Leader

A couple months ago, I learned a painful lesson which made me realise the importance of focusing on 'the bigger picture' of whatever I’m doing. I was preparing to facilitate a leadership...
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Inspire Others with your 'voice of leadership' - published in NZ Herald Business

If you'd like me to send you a copy of my article published in the NZ Herald Business Section,on the 12th June, 2010, please email me and I'll gladly send it to you. (It was not published online -...
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The Art of Empathy: A Key for Leaders

Imagine a company culture where team members feels aligned and connected with a clear sense of purpose, and there is consequently a great sense of goodwill, cooperation, productivity, and...
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Are you Comfortable in your Own Skin?

How comfortable are you in your own skin? How much of your authentic self do you share with the world? What stops you from expressing yourself fully? I’d like to invite you to look at...
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Why You are Afraid of Public Speaking

How confident do you feel when you stand up to speak? How connected do you feel to yourself and to your audience? If you're like most people, you are a bit glossophobic (afraid of public...
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Assertiveness:the Difference Between Life and Death - Success and Failure

How confident are you being direct and open with your prospective and current customers or with your sales team? Do you avoid telling people things that you’re afraid they might not like to...
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Dealing with Conflict Directly

Have you ever had your mouth washed out with soap? I have. I remember when I was eight years old saying 'I hate you' to my mom and having her grabbing me by the arm and marching me over to the...
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Six Words to Discover Your Leadership Purpose

Are you on track with living your passionate purpose? Are you a leader in that you inspire those around you? Are you moving in a clear direction? Would you like to take more intentional action...
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Speak Like a Leader

Do you speak like a leader? Whether you're speaking to a large group, a few people, or even to one person, do you consider yourself to be inspirational and motivational? Why or why not? I...
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How To Assert Yourself in a Stressful Meeting

Have you ever held in your feelings during a meeting, not wanting to offend by speaking your mind? Then, afterwards, you think of all the things you SHOULD have said? Have you ever felt angry...
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The Key to Successful Relationships
The Courage to Voice Yourself: ( One Person’s Radical Transformation Story)
Speaking with Humour: How to Be Funny!
What would Life have you Do?
Are You Sounding Your Note?
How Expressing Your Anger Can Make You Healthier
Are You Being What You're Wanting?
Blindly Speaking for Real
From Crisis into Mastery - The Four Stage Process
How to De-Stress your Meetings
Have You Ever Been in Prison?
Communicate like a Leader
Are you REALLY taking care of yourself - Tips for supporting yourself to live to your full potential
Speak with Confidence: 5 Steps to Powerful Presence